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"I'm tickled that over 500 people have viewed the info on the ebook in less than a week at the publisher's site. Keeping my fingers crossed that those who may benefit from reading it will get what they need from it."
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"Thank you, Karen. Since my transplant, I've also moved past a heart attack and most recently, on the day I got word my ebook was published, my oncologist also advised me that the last vestiges of renal cell carcinoma could not longer be found…"
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My ebook:Thoughts of a LifetimeWith no knowledge of the time left him before death, for want of a life-saving organ transplant, author Neil Lewis Willens found his voice, dealing with stress, facing his own mortality each day for 30 years. With…
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"Even better news is the renal cell carcinoma for which I had surgery last November is now completely gone. It is a week to celebrate!"
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Please Select Your Transplant - Or Tell Us How Else You Were Touched by Transplantation:
Liver
Recipients: In This Space, Feel Free To Write About Those You Are Grateful to for Receiving The Gift Of Life:
I am grateful to Joshua and his family, who made the decision on the worst day fo their lives, to donate Joshua's liver, which gave me a second chance in life.
Recipient: What Type of Donor Did You Receive your Gift of Life From?
Deceased Donor
Which Transplant Medication(s) Do You Take?
Prograf
What Do You Do For a Living? What Are Your Passions, Hobbies, Passtimes, Dreams and Goals for the Future?
I consult with companies developing and selling medical and dental products, including disposable devices. I am a photographer and I sell supplemental insurance throughout payroll marketing.
About Me: Please use this space to tell the community about you and your unique experience with transplantation:
In the late 1960's, I was a liver researcher working at NY Medical College and Flower and Fifth Avenue Hospitals under an NIH grant. Our program was established to help develop the body of knowledge on the liver that could one day help make liver transplantation possible. It is believed I became ill from a Norwegian brown rat virus that crossed vectors and infected me. I used to perform liver perfusion surgical procedures on these animals, college blood samples from a surgically implanted cannula and then analyze the blood chemistry.
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Classic rock 'n roll, folk, blues, jazz, classical music and opera. also enjoy movies, reading and writing, nature photography
What is Your Favorite Quote(s)?
"You may only be young once, but you can be immature for a lifetime."
"I don't know if it was I who kept hope alive, or hope that kept me alive, but together we worked a miracle."
"Time is infinite, I am not. Would you please hurry up?"
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Always something...

It has been over 12 years since my ltx and the time has flown by and I've been blessed with mostly good health. I remember when I first decided to make the conscious decision to live my life on immuno-suppressive medicine. I figured this was a necessary evil, even though sometime down the road, sooner or later, there would be the piper to pay. The MI I had back in 2011 was just a bump in the road and I've been fine, working out as necessary to maintain the improvements in my body's health once a pair of stents were in place in my coronary arteries. Then this past summer, someone at my annual transplant visit suggested I have an ultrasound scan, "just because" we've not seen what's going on inside you for a number of years. Radiology reported something in the right kidney which necessitated a CT and then a CT with contrast die to clearly define what they identified as a renal cell carcinoma. The pathology report from the frozen section showed clear margins, but within a couple of weeks, the report from the permanant slides that there were carcinoma cells in the margins. Then it was a case of what to do next. While meeting my kidney surgeon at his office2 weeks post op, which was about 4 days after I'd stopped using the pain medicine, he told me this and the first thing I said was "I'll run the two blocks to the hospital and meet you at the OR. You book the case and I"ll wait for you to remove the remainder of that kidney." He said "Hold on. There's no need for more surgery." He assured me that the numbers in favor of avoiding a return of a tumor were in my favor and if it did come back, it would be in that same kidney and they could always go get it again. After I shared this with my daughter, the thirty something attorney, she did some research and told me: Dad, you need to speak with your liver tx surgeon and tell him you want to be taken off the Prograf which enabled this cancer to grow in the first place and switch to Rapamune."' She referenced the research she'd rad on the UNOS site and I checked it out. The difference is that Rapamune will allow my body's T-cells to engage the cancer cells and a side effect of the medicine is that it prevents new blood vessels from forming, which would do a fine job of starving a tumor of its nourishment and ability to grow. (New adage: Feed a cold, starve a cancer.) I met with my ltx doctor and he agreed this was the best course of action for me. So, today was my first day on the new drug, having stopped the old one yesterday. It's been 12 hours without any noticeable side effect, which is great because the list of those is quite long. At first, i was concerned, then thought back to the length of the list of side effects that comes with Prograf, and had to chuckle when I again realized that this stuff I take to preserve my life can kill me. Some days, one just has to laugh at the reality of being a transplant recipient and enjoy the gift.

Of course, I may have to quickly get off Rapamune if I break a bone or have a physical injury or surgery, which would require my body to produce new blood vessels to enhance circulation when and where needed. For now, my job is to have none of the side effects as imaginary symptoms as I look forward to the next 12 plus years with this perfectly healthy liver of mine and nurse along the kidneys to last at least as long. And being aware of poetic irony, I'm also being very careful driving and crossing the streets as a pedestrian. LOL. Yep, life's like that.

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What News?

Posted on September 20, 2012 at 10:59pm 2 Comments

The doctor's office phoned,

seeking to set me an appointment.

First, the ultrasound results were back.

Now, he must discuss my MRI results.

As leaves turn, so do my thoughts,

of meteorological stages

that mirror the seasons of my life.

Budding time is past and I've matured by degree.

The past I've measured, on occasion, by minutes,

often by weeks and months.

Now, as I look back on the current…

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Weeping Willow

Posted on July 26, 2011 at 1:15pm 0 Comments

 

 

 

Weeping Willow

 

When the weeping willow whips around

And the creaking eaves screech their eerie sound,

My haunting memories and fears abound

And my thoughts return to that hallowed ground.

 

Had I not planted that tree in my youth,…

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Bio posted for April, 2009. One man exhibit of 35 photos at Georgetown University Hospital's art gallery

Posted on March 27, 2009 at 7:03pm 2 Comments

Artist for April. 2009:

Neil Willens



Photographer, Poet, and Transplant Recipient



The photographer’s lens filters images through the mind’s eye to create individual visions. Photographers often seek to insert something of themselves into their work, a captured thought or memory, a statement, or a personal connection that will endure. The extent to which a work resonates with the viewer determines the acceptance of the… Continue

Haiku for donor families

Posted on December 31, 2008 at 6:00am 2 Comments

Selfless

I have gone.
I will age no more.
Now, you live.

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At 4:11pm on September 23, 2012, A. Front said…

Thanks :)

At 9:17pm on September 22, 2012, A. Front said…

It's the soul and the eye. I'm not really the photographer of the family, that's my husband. But I paint and draw.

Any medium will play the part, art's created through the heart :0


I find nature helps to connect us to beauty, serenity and the real world that does not need words.

At 11:22am on September 22, 2012, Bobbiejo Winfrey said…

Thank you so much for being so generous in sharing your talent with me. It is especially appreciated because I am not within walking distance to any parks or any buses that might could take me there. I cannot drive a car, and my parents do not feel good with me going out to walk by myself because I am so thin and underweight. It helps to be able to have some way to connect myself to the many beauties of the world. You connect well with your subject matter and almost make me feel as if I was there or make me wish so. Thank you again and again. It means so much to one limited by physical distance and strength. I think this makes my senses more sensitive or it is you bringing it out in me.

At 9:40am on August 2, 2011, Sue R. said…
Neil,   Thank you for sharing the beautiful picture of the BlueJay with all the brilliant colors. You are amazing with a camera and I enjoyed it very much!
At 8:12pm on July 26, 2011, Marina said…
Great  pictures  Neil!!
At 1:40am on July 26, 2011,
TC Admin
Karen Weddick
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Hi Neil:

    I have been enjoying your beautiful flower photos.  Please join my group of "Transplant Creativity" and share them their.  They are just beautiful and stunning.  Thank you for sharing some of the joys of summer and mother nature.

Hugs and blessings, Karen

At 5:58pm on July 25, 2011, Sue R. said…

Congratulations Neil on your 11 year anniversary!!! It's so nice to hear you are doing well and enjoying your gift. We are all very blessed.  Wishing you many more filled with new adventures, much happiness, lot's of love and laughter.  Thanks for sharing your beautiful pictures.  Your flowers brightened my day with all the sharp colors.

At 11:20am on July 23, 2011, Bobbiejo Winfrey said…
I just noticed the new photos you have added of the sunflowers and the butterfly, and I must say they have already made my day brighter. I took a look at your other photos such as of the carousel and the fox, and I admire your skill in framing a picture and connecting me and drawing me into it with some emotion. Thank you so much for sharing. I have not ever been good with photography (too hesitant and shy), but I do appreciate so much those with the talent. I hope you are having a good weekend. Best of wishes.  
At 3:13pm on February 25, 2011, Maggie Velez said…
Hi Neil.  I saved your email address and will email you.  Today I am with taking care of my granddaughter.  Have a good night. 
 
 
 

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